ArchAngel wrote:And nobody here is asking for a Christian bash-fest, nor is anyone seeking to make generalistic statements about Christians. The article itself mentions another Christian ministry that accepted the atheist volunteers and commended them on their practices on how they operate. I doubt the intentions was to discredit religion as a whole, but rather probably, just the "snobby types."
You're giving the Huffington Post more credit for their intentions than I would, but that's a matter of opinion anyway.
ArchAngel wrote:
What we are seeing here is a group invoking exclusionary practices that are reprimandable. There is an actual issue here that's worth exploring. It's more than just jerks in a religion, it's people who are genuinely think they are doing the right thing based on their interpretation of religious teachings. It's cerebral and it needs to be addressed, by people in the church more than anybody.
For the sake of looking at all sides, I read the article, and frankly I don't see what you're seeing. You're talking about exclusionary practices. I'm seeing a conflict of interest. I'm a dedicated Java developer. Would I ask you, a .NET guy, to come and help me promote a Java based solution for a project, especially if there was a competing .NET approach?
ArchAngel wrote:
But instead of getting angry about that and how these people are misusing your religion, you focused on the crappy title.
Of course, when that title declared the intentions of the author loud and clear. If the title had read something like "Snubbed Atheist Group Finds More Open Christian Group to Work With" that would have advertised a more balanced approach.
ArchAngel wrote:
To repeat myself from the last post, this shouldn't be about sides, but as long as either party is treating it as it is, it will forever be. The title is divisive, so let's say that drew the first line, but by accepting their terms and playing the us vs. christian line, this won't get resolved. The battle lines just get bigger, and the real issue never gets addressed. Just more angry people lining up.
True, which is why I generally avoid these kinds of articles in the first place.
ArchAngel wrote:
Even before that title, a group of people of people were denied from participating in feeding the less fortunate because of differences in belief. More lines. More sides. No empathy for anyone else. Just a continuation in outgrouping and tribal politics.
Or, again, a conflict of interest. From the article:
“We are an unapologetically Christian organization, and we always have been,” Julie Larocco, development officer for the Kansas City Rescue Mission, told the paper. “We want to share the message with the people we serve that ‘God loves you, and you are not alone.’ It seemed to us that this (atheist) group probably would not want to deliver those meals.”
Is that unreasonable? If this Christian organization is specifically looking to share the Gospel through this program, wouldn't it put Atheist participants in a position where they might feel their own beliefs are being compromised?
ArchAngel wrote:
How angry would you get if you read "Christians Show Snobby Atheist Soup Kitchen How To Actually Be Good People." Would your first thought how biased horrid this article must be to atheists, and that these generalistic attacks on Atheists are overbearing. I doubt it.
Depends on the source. I would expect a title like that from a known biased source like a Christian based periodical with an axe to grind against Atheists. If I saw a title like that from a news source that has a pretense of objectivity, then yes I'd be annoyed for exactly the same reasons as you. I'm not a fan of divisive language and approaches either. The Huffington Post isn't, as far as I know, a dedicated Atheist newsletter. (Or maybe they are and just pretend otherwise.)
ArchAngel wrote:
And I sat through countless lectures about "how atheists are like" by people who have no real idea of what goes on in our heads. Even as a Christian, I knew these people were talking from a place of ignorance, and as a minority group, they are being misaligned by people who don't even know. We are talked about like we are immoral, hateful, bitter, ignorant, and borderline satanic at times.
(Rather like how I keep hearing Christians portrayed in articles like this one.)
ArchAngel wrote:
They are even barred from volunteering. This is all simply because we do not believe in a god. Absolutely ridiculous. This is a genuine issue, and a lot of atheists step out in the foreground because if they won't speak for themselves, well, we already see what happens if someone else will. So, as it must be apparent now, here's something we share in common. We have emotional impulses to be protective of our respective belief groups.
But, no, the title wouldn't bother you as much and I think you would be more incensed at why these Atheists are snubbing Christians, and you would be right to be. I'm not saying you'd be fine with that title, and I think you'd oppose it like I oppose the current title. And yes, that title would probably pee me of more, but I'd like to think I'd be shaking my head and growling over what these moron atheists just did.
If that Christian group were being outright hateful, I'd join you in criticizing them, but frankly all I see in the article is a quote that says a lot more about avoiding a conflict of interest than the hate they're being accused of. I'm just not seeing enough evidence to draw the conclusion that they're being exclusionary for its own sake.
ArchAngel wrote:
The only point of this example is how taking sides often biases one against fairness. I think you are so emotionally on guard about any slights or encroaches coming from outside that you are letting some of the ones from the inside not register. Yes, you admitted there are jerks who are Christians, but here, it's more than that. I don't think the people who turned out the atheists are malicious or selfish, I think they are ignorant. They think they are doing the right thing, but it's misguided and hurtful. It is a present prevailing attitude among many Christians and it's something that should be addressed. This is more than "oh look, another jerk." No, this one was done under the direction of religion because they thought this is what God would want, by in this, they lost their love for their fellowman.
Not seeing that in the article. I'll go through it below.
ArchAngel wrote:
So yes, I should think you should be getting angrier about what these groups did in the name of your lord. They did more to the disgrace the reputation of your religion than that title ever did.
If you haven't read the article yet, maybe it's time to.
Here's my analysis of the article. It isn't very long, so I can go into detail. Of course, I invite you to do the same from your end, and we can compare notes.
article wrote:
Even after a Christian soup kitchen told a group of atheists that it wasn’t a “good fit” to volunteer, the generous non-believers tracked down another faith organization to help out.
"Another faith organization?" Representing what faith? Maybe they'll mention it below...
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The Kansas City Atheist Coalition (KCAC) was eager to deliver Thanksgiving meals to the poor and the elderly with the Kansas City Rescue Mission, a holiday program it had contributed to for the past two years. But this season the door was slammed in the group’s face, The Kansas City Star reported.
"The door was slammed in their face." Not very neutrally phrased, that. Leads one to imagine a group of smiling members of the KCAC standing on the doorstep with some Christian behind the door *BWAM*
article wrote:
“We are an unapologetically Christian organization, and we always have been,” Julie Larocco, development officer for the Kansas City Rescue Mission, told the paper. “We want to share the message with the people we serve that ‘God loves you, and you are not alone.’ It seemed to us that this (atheist) group probably would not want to deliver those meals.”
Not the call I would have made, but they do seem to be coming at it from a position of avoiding a conflict of interest. Would have been nice if the article would have gone into some details about the conversation that transpired between the KCRM and the KCAC. It seems the two organizations have worked together fine before. What changed? Was it a change in leadership in one or both organizations? Did someone complain? What happened?
article wrote:
Larocco also noted that since they get hundreds of volunteers around the holidays, they wouldn’t have a problem replacing the atheist group in delivering the estimated 2,400 meals.
Nice, but not relevant.
article wrote:
While the atheist group was miffed, it could not be deterred.
Good.
article wrote:
As the word spread of how the coalition had been banned, an “overwhelming” number of agencies reached out and asked the volunteers for their help, the organization wrote on its website.
Good.
article wrote:
KCAC ultimately decided to lend a helping hand to the Micah Ministry, the outreach mission of Independence Boulevard Christian Church. The group will serve Thanksgiving dinner to people in need on Nov. 25, an event that offers guests the chance to sit and be served in a dignified way without waiting on “food lines.”
Good for the IBCC. They made the call I'd have made.
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“Senior Minister Lee Chiaramonte has expressed that they do not require an acceptance of faith from those who volunteer, nor do they ask one of those who need a warm meal for the night,” KCAC wrote on its website. “They accept all who enter their doors regardless of faith, sexual orientation, race, creed, or legal standing. We are quite excited to simply work together and sincerely help those who are less fortunate.”
That reads like a very carefully worded statement, to be sure. Not sure what they mean by "accept[ing] all who enter their doors..." Does that mean staff? Visitors? Partners? I only ask because I'm not aware of any church that would refuse to let people of different races, beliefs or sexual orientations come in as visitors (Yes, even the Mormons) but most churches are a lot more specific about who can be pastors, clergy, etc. This isn't made clear here, but the Huffington Post is definitely considerably friendlier toward Christian groups that crow about how progressive they are.
(Admittedly, that's beside the point though.)
article wrote:
Perhaps KCAC took a page out of a book from a group of atheists in South Carolina who also recently faced a similar disheartening situation.
When Upstate Atheists offered to volunteer with the Spartanburg Soup Kitchen, the group heard a resounding “no” when the executive director said she would resign from her job before allowing such a group to support her organization, the Christian Post reported.
That sounded a bit harsher than the example from Kansas City, but it would have been nice to get a direct quote to know exactly what was said.*
article wrote:
Rather than give up, the group decided to form its own program. Last month, the volunteers got together and doled out 300 care packages to the homless, right across the street from the nonprofit that rejected them. Through an online fundraiser, Upstate Atheists was able to collect $2,000 to buy socks, gloves, deodorant, toothpaste and antiseptic wipes and other items.
Good for them.
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"I was upset with the hateful remarks. It certainly wasn't necessary," Eve Brannon, president of Upstate Atheists, told the Christian Post. "However, it turned out well. Because we were turned away, we ended up being able to give the homeless care packages that they needed. The people in need are the ones who truly matter."
Since we don't have a direct quote from that case, we can only take Brannon's word for it that the remarks were hateful, I suppose. Maybe they were, maybe they weren't.*
ArchAngel wrote:
ArcticFox wrote:(Apocalypse averted, we've disagreed again.

That's what I forgot to mention! So, does the counter go back to zero?
I think it should... We don't disagree ALL the time and I'd like to think we don't want to rush the apocalypse.
*I searched, and found This article on the South Carolina group. Looks like they were being jerks. Not gonna defend that.
I did also look around a bit for some more info on the Kansas City case, to see if there's another side to the story. I found
this article that had a couple of interesting comments:
This year, the Thanksgiving meal will look a little bit different when recipients open up the dinner. They will see a gospel message inside that reads: God loves you and you are not alone.
"If someone was to say 'tell me more' and the person can't because it's against their convictions, I don't feel like that's representative of the Kansas City Rescue Mission,” Larocco said. “We believe that God is our hope."
Ok, that gives us a bit more context. What changed was that there seems to be more of a Christian theme to the event than there had been in the past. Now I can see a little better why the two groups could work together before, but now there's a conflict. It's being combined with missionary efforts. An Atheist group would be put in a morally compromising position of asked to do this. Imagine it the other way: If an Atheist group were handing out food and expounding on the virtues of shedding religion, would you reasonably expect a Christian charity to participate in that?
Here's another snippet:
The Kansas City Rescue Mission has asked the Atheist Coalition to help with other projects throughout the year. The coalition said it will consider but this holiday it will instead adopt a family.
Funny the Huffington Post article didn't mention this. So the KCRM isn't blowing the Atheists off. They seem to be perfectly willing to keep working with them on other projects, but I can see why this one isn't a good fit anymore.
And my source is an NBC site, which tends to lean left. If they can find a way to mention that part, then the HP truly has no excuse.