Article: why millennials are leaving the church
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I think there is truth in this, but ultimately, that "substance", is, and should be Christ, and it is this substance, that many churches miss.What millennials really want from the church is not a change in style but a change in substance.
I think there is some substance to this as well. I've heard many stories of pastors and preachers who change their message because they're afraid of losing members of their congregation if they did talk about what they thought or felt. They rely on those donations and tithes to keep their church - or perhaps their own bank accounts - afloat. Sadly, this leads to focusing more on the pocketbook rather than the lessons and example Jesus gave to us.seancruz wrote:
I'd go as far as to say, that right now, the American Church is being tested; so many churches are consistently changing and "adapting" in an attempt to please unbelievers.
I don't think this is a claim you can defend. In fact, this is a claim you shouldn't even try to defend because the bible teaches that all of humanity has rejected God.seancruz wrote:If you were to truly investigate the number of Christian communities that actually rely and follow Christ, you'd find few.
Maybe church hopping isn't the right idea. Jesus didn't go looking for the perfect synagogue. And, thinking that one exists is overconfident if not foolish.seancruz wrote:It was not until recently, that I was able to find a church that truly teaches the Scriptures, and functions in humbleness and contriteness towards God.
I think it's a mistake to think that this is a new problem and as if God is testing Americans.seancruz wrote:I'd go as far as to say, that right now, the American Church is being tested; so many churches are consistently changing and "adapting" in an attempt to please unbelievers.
@Point 1: Yes you're right, the Bible says all man has rejected God. But I meant that of all the churches in this country, which ones rely on God through faith? Very little. The way how many churches conduct themselves today is evidence of their fruit; when you compare their works with what Scripture instructs us to do, I find that man often has created his own rules, traditions, and regulations opposite to God's instructions. I only claim this based on my experience from church-hopping, reading, studying sermons, etc.brandon1984 wrote:seancruz, welcome to the forum.![]()
I don't think this is a claim you can defend. In fact, this is a claim you shouldn't even try to defend because the bible teaches that all of humanity has rejected God.
Maybe church hopping isn't the right idea. Jesus didn't go looking for the perfect synagogue. And, thinking that one exists is overconfident if not foolish.
I think it's a mistake to think that this is a new problem and as if God is testing Americans.
You're claim that "very little" churches in America rely on God through faith cannot be substantiated by your personal experience. There are simply too many churches. And, you cannot, as a human, adequately evaluate their fruit. You are in no position to judge them. Now, I can agree with you that there are some churches out there based on false gospels (i.e., prosperity gospel). But, I get the sense that you probably mean to say that most churches do not agree with your interpretation of scripture which is wanting a large dose of humility.seancruz wrote:But I meant that of all the churches in this country, which ones rely on God through faith? Very little. The way how many churches conduct themselves today is evidence of their fruit; when you compare their works with what Scripture instructs us to do, I find that man often has created his own rules, traditions, and regulations opposite to God's instructions. I only claim this based on my experience from church-hopping, reading, studying sermons, etc.
Your sentiment confirms my suspicion that you probably think your interpretation of scripture is superior to others. And, do you seriously think that sound doctrine puts you in the "flock of sheep"? Do you worship sound doctrine? It's not sound doctrine, but rather God who saves as an act of charity towards his creatures.seancruz wrote:But, I do want to make sure that I am being fed the Word of God properly, with sound discernment, sound theology, and with people who truly do seek the Lord, by faith in Jesus Christ. It's not impossible, or improbable for a church like that to exist, though they are few. We are commanded to flee when hearing a false gospel, and sadly, I've heard false or water-down gospels in many churches. I want to be sure that I am with the "flock of sheep", and not the "herd of goats".
brandon1984 wrote:My friend, my post is very critical but I want it to be constructive. Please, keep that in mind.
You're claim that "very little" churches in America rely on God through faith cannot be substantiated by your personal experience. There are simply too many churches. And, you cannot, as a human, adequately evaluate their fruit. You are in no position to judge them. Now, I can agree with you that there are some churches out there based on false gospels (i.e., prosperity gospel). But, I get the sense that you probably mean to say that most churches do not agree with your interpretation of scripture which is wanting a large dose of humility.
Your sentiment confirms my suspicion that you probably think your interpretation of scripture is superior to others. And, do you seriously think that sound doctrine puts you in the "flock of sheep"? Do you worship sound doctrine? It's not sound doctrine, but rather God who saves as an act of charity towards his creatures.
I can safely assume that this trend of "adapting" to the culture around us; becoming "relevant" to the unbelieving culture, etc is something that is nation-wide, heck, international! The church model today has shifted to become a congregation for unbelievers, rather than believers. Instead of going out and preaching, and making disciples, we are consistently attempting to bring unbelievers in our church buildings, so we can show them how fun it is, how nice community is there, that God isn't such a killjoy, and that he can really bless your life. It is of my opinion and assumption, that many churches are in a quest to befriend the world, for the sake of saving unbelievers. And to me, this screams danger. While the intentions are well-meant, our goal is not to convince unbelievers that church can be fun, but to share the truth, and the truth is that Jesus Christ died for their sin, was buried, and rose again. Again, this is my assumption; I believe the state of many churches today, and their quest to become relevant to the world is evidence of their fruit. And their fruit has led, to the proliferation of all kinds of wrong gospels, man-made ideas, ecumenicalism with Islam and other religions, churches that now deem homosexuality to be okay with God, etc. All in the name of relevance, many churches, I believe, are befriending the world, slowly compromising the truth of the Word.I'd go as far as to say, that right now, the American Church is being tested; so many churches are consistently changing and "adapting" in an attempt to please unbelievers. I believe, that the majority of the American Church has forgotten, that the church is for the believers/saints of Christ; and that we are to go out, and preach the gospel. Church was never for the unbeliever, because spiritual matters are foolishness to those who do not believe in Jesus's death, burial, and resurrection. Church is for the nourishment of the believer, where the body of Christ gathers.
I think this is very case-specific. For example, I will disengage a prosperity gospel church in a heartbeat. But, I think issues of denomination are generally not worth disengagement (i.e., Catholicism vs Methodism vs Calvinism). I think we should embrace what CS Lewis called "mere Christianity".seancruz wrote:If a teacher repeatedly teaches something that does not align with Scripture, then unfortunately, I must stop listening to him/her. There is no common sense in listening to someone who can potentially mislead you into deception.
With all due respect I think there are problems with discerning who will be saved to eternal life and who will not. I remember there being a parable teaching this, but I can't remember the details, I will have to search for it. In the mean time I think it's a bad idea to judge people because 1) we cannot know if someone truly in their heart accepts or rejects the gospel, there are simply no good enough indicators to bridge our gap of knowledge. 2) It creates an "us and them" sort of mentality. This taints how we approach people when we should approach people with only love.seancruz wrote:There's nothing wrong with discerning whether we are in the flock of sheep, or the herd of goats.
I don't think churches should be counted as entities that "choose" to adapt to culture. People make these churches for a reason. They may be foolish, but there are still reasons. Also, people want to justify homosexuality for a reason. I love all my homosexual friends and I don't want to see them condemned. That does not make homosexuality moral, but serves as an example that there are reasons that people do things and form such churches. It's not just about PR.seancruz wrote:I can safely assume that this trend of "adapting" to the culture around us
brandon1984 wrote: I think this is very case-specific. For example, I will disengage a prosperity gospel church in a heartbeat. But, I think issues of denomination are generally not worth disengagement (i.e., Catholicism vs Methodism vs Calvinism). I think we should embrace what CS Lewis called "mere Christianity".
With all due respect I think there are problems with discerning who will be saved to eternal life and who will not. I remember there being a parable teaching this, but I can't remember the details, I will have to search for it. In the mean time I think it's a bad idea to judge people because 1) we cannot know if someone truly in their heart accepts or rejects the gospel, there are simply no good enough indicators to bridge our gap of knowledge. 2) It creates an "us and them" sort of mentality. This taints how we approach people when we should approach people with only love.
I don't think churches should be counted as entities that "choose" to adapt to culture. People make these churches for a reason. They may be foolish, but there are still reasons. Also, people want to justify homosexuality for a reason. I love all my homosexual friends and I don't want to see them condemned. That does not make homosexuality moral, but serves as an example that there are reasons that people do things and form such churches. It's not just about PR.
So, instead of thinking churches "choose" to be watered-down or entertainment-driven, I think a more constructive way to look at it as the influences behind the individuals who have chosen to form such institutions. In other words, it's not just a bunch of morally deficient fools running about out there. It's that there are ideas counter to God that seem like good options and people choose them. I'm not preaching "love the sinner, hate the sin" but rather "Father, forgive them for they know not what they do."
Agreed.seancruz wrote:However, it doesn't mean we should not research as to why they believe certain things certain ways, etc.
Well, they have a very Roman power structure and ex cathedra doctrine I don't agree with (i.e., on birth control). But, what matters more is that they are Christians who believe in the redemptive power of Christ. I will not support them as an organization, but I will not judge them to be goats either.seancruz wrote:As for Catholicism, I am not sure where I stand on it at this time.
You've taken a precarious belief about your congregation. There could be scandals just waiting to surface. Upright congregants turning out to be having affairs, embellishing, molesting, etc. It's more reasonable to stop jumping to conclusion and admit that you don't know who are "sheep" and "goats". It's not our position to be each other's judge.seancruz wrote:As for the flock of sheep, I think that there are some people who you can definitely tell they are Christian. . . Could I be wrong, and there be many goats in my congregation? Sure, and if somehow I could know, then I would accept that I made a wrong assumption.
To start, I'm not sure if you are giving enough credit to the difficulty in coming to orthodoxy from the bible. The prosperity gospel is a modern form of ideas within Judaism (i.e., Deuteronomy 28) that God himself seems to have sanctioned. We seem to need frequent reminders that salvation is by grace alone and that's why we have Paul and Marin Luther, etc.seancruz wrote:Those decisions and influences (seem to me), to be man's attempt to do church his own way, rather than God's way outlined in the Bible.