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Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Mon May 14, 2012 6:37 pm
by Syxth
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Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Mon May 14, 2012 7:54 pm
by ArchAngel
Don't get caught up with looking for a future wife. That was a huge mistake in my past and I could have saved myself a lot of grief. God will guide you on that, just go ahead and get to know her.
Marriage will come later and the great thing about is that you don't have to to commit to it till you actually commit to it.
Don't overthink it, just talk to her.
Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Mon May 14, 2012 9:06 pm
by jester747
I, too, think that.
I'll be praying.
Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Mon May 14, 2012 10:23 pm
by TheWampaKing
Pretty much what Arch said. The best relationships start as normal friendships. Be careful not to get your hopes up and let that get the best of you.
Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Mon May 14, 2012 11:23 pm
by Syxth
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Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Tue May 15, 2012 12:22 am
by ccgr
praying for guidance.

Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Tue May 15, 2012 12:26 am
by ArchAngel
Syxth wrote:It feels like I'm dying to give love, but maybe I'm dying to receive love.
Both, I reckon. It's human, after all. We're built that way.
Always strive to grow closer to God, but realize it's not an issue what you do or what you control, but where your heart is with Him. If you try placing a girl in your heart where God should be, you're gonna have a bad time. If you are right with God, and are fine with who you are, then having a relationship can be a very beneficial thing.
Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Tue May 15, 2012 3:17 am
by Syxth
Edited post cause I went off topic.
Thanks arch. ^_^
Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Tue May 15, 2012 3:25 am
by Chozon1
Praying for 'ya.
Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Wed May 16, 2012 6:17 am
by Syxth
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Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Wed May 16, 2012 1:40 pm
by ccgr
praying, let us know how it goes
Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Wed May 16, 2012 5:15 pm
by JOJ650s
Praying!
I wish there was more for me to say, though I am not sure what.
Anyways, I will be praying!
Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Wed May 16, 2012 5:35 pm
by jester747
ArchAngel wrote: If you try placing a girl in your heart where God should be, you're gonna have a bad time.

Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 8:16 pm
by Syxth
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Re: Thinking about talking with a girl...
Posted: Fri May 18, 2012 12:15 am
by ccgr
Suspicion can be good and bad, overly so and you sound like a conspiracy theorist and without it people can walk all over you. I tend to err on trusting but watch who I hang around with.