Well said Arch,
though that was not what I meant by it.
What I should have said was,
"Be part of the answer, not part of the problem."
Though, I hesitated since it was already in my sig,
and I did not want to sound like some guy who claims know all the answers in the world.
So, I switched it.
So what I mean by it is,
why say something that's going to end up a problem?
Say I go to a random board, (With somewhat civil people.)
and there was a thread for people to talk about say... Mass Effect.
Then I appear and just say "The story stinks, not a fan of the series."
This is what is likely to take place,
-Someone asks "how so?"
-Then I say the ending was horrible, etc.
-Then a lot people who like Mass Effect would defend it.
-Then a few other people will agree about the ending being bad.
-Then things will go back and forth. (People defend it and then people bash it.)
-Then I go on to say, I didn't care about the main character, etc.
-Then things will go back and forth again.
-Then at last the people stop talking about it.
Then might end up with these results.
-The people who did not like Mass Effect or the ending will most likely end up the same way they were. (And may form a grudge.)
-Then the people who liked it are annoyed. (And may form a grudge also.)
-The thread would be de-railed, and might be abandoned after the big discussion took place.
-Then the people who weren't involve would see the destruction. (Even if the discussion was pretty civil, it can easily look like a mess to those not involved.)
-Also a few people might even get offended.
Basically you end up with a mess,
and it all started with an unnecessary post that could have been easily left unsaid.
This is when I find the quote "if you don't have anything good to say, then why say it?" make since. (Not in all cases, but this one I think it does.)
Though "Be part of the answer, not part of the problem." is the quote I still prefer.
Do you think there would be any gain from starting a discussion like that?
Possibly, but I feel like there would be far more of a loss then a gain.
Once again, I hope I have not been rude or anything.
I think all you guys are awesome, even if I may disagree with you.
